Many marriages which crash these days, do so because the companionship and sweetness they experienced and had while dating. This loss of sweetness occurs because many forgets the attracting factor which brought them together. The saying that lack of friendship is what leads to unhappy marriages cannot be argued also. To make your marriage love-filled,apply the following tips;
- Don’t stop dating
Many couples forget what made them attracted to their mates in the first place. Sometimes work or kids leave them with little time to grow as a couple and they move away from dating.This can pose a serious problem for couples. It's important to keep that spark alive by continuing to date. Whether it is once a week or once a month, it's important to get some alone time with each other. This might mean getting a babysitter for an evening or putting overtime at the plant on hold. If your partner is worth it, don't let the relationship grow stagnant and die.
- Try making love in exciting new places
Many couples fall into routine lovemaking. While there's nothing wrong with routine, it's always a good thing to add some spontaneity to the relationship.One great way to inject more passion into your relationship is to take your love making outside the bedroom. Make love in different rooms of your house and in public places or places that you'd never normally think of as a hot spot.
Remember when you first met, and couldn't keep your hands off of each other? That's the kind of passion you want to recapture. Your partner wants to know that they're still attractive, desirable and you can't get enough of them. They want to feel like they still have it in them to drive you crazy with lust, with a glance or a touch. Flirt with each other and build the anticipation.
- Don't take each other for granted
Taking each other for granted and doing the same thing over and over again, will lead most couples down the boredom highway. Every once in a while (as much as possible!) you need to hit the gas and swerve off that highway if you want your relationship to last. It's not terribly difficult to spice up your marriage - it can be a lot of fun!