Many marriages which fail this days,don't crash because the said couples weren't in love before they got married.
The main test of love is not while dating/courting,but after wedding,when you start living together.
The question now is;
Are you ready to let go of that your usual routine/schedule for your spouses' sake?
Can you for example,skip that usual dinner with the girls/guys and be with your spouse?
Can you shift/postpone that journey for his/her sake?
For you to have a sweet,enjoyable and happy marriage,you MUST be ready to make sacrifices.