Cheating in relationships/marriages

Cheating doesn't occur only when one kisses, meets or have sexual relation with a third party. Once you find yourself deleting text messages and e-mails so your partner won't see them, you are already there. Once you find it uncomfortable to chat, send text messages, receive calls or make calls to some people because your partner is around; once you find it very difficult to allow your partner to make us of your phone, answer your calls in your presence or absence then know that you are already a cheat.
Its like a cancer it develops slowly but you will surely feel the pain when its fully grown.

 The funny thing is most of the times, people try to find what they already have because they don't just appreciate what they have. Remember the grass may look green on the other side but what if you could just invest time and energy by watering the one that you have. Wouldn't the world be a better place to be today?
Can you imagine how strong your relationship would be if you would not waste your energy, resources and time on things that have no future. Secret, small, hidden relationships are like ticks they suck all the good things out of your marriage or relationship and makes it unstable. It will take you more effort to repair what you would have damaged and the sad thing is sometimes those wounds might never heal.

10 common lies men tell women

Listed below are the white, gray, and black lies that men tell. I am sure most of us will have likely come across it before. You never know when you’ll need it for reference.

1. “I don’t have a girlfriend/wife.” 

2. “I’m not drunk.” Dude, we can smell the PBRs on your breath from here. Give us a break. ‘Fess up to your booze fest.

3. “I’m not looking for a relationship right now.” Translation: “I’m not looking for a relationship with YOU right now.” That’s OK. We’re on to the next one.

4. “I don’t want to talk about it.” If the most common lie women tell is, “I’m fine,” the male version is, “I don’t want to talk about it.” Yes, you do. In fact, you already are.

5. “I’m not interested in you just for the sex.” Gotcha. We should probably do stuff other than, you know, have sex. If that’s the case.

6. “I always wear a condom.” Also, Santa Claus is real. And I’m dating the Easter Bunny. And Thomas Jefferson is my BFF.

7. “I’m leaving her for you.” Quit talking about it and do it already.

8. “I’ll call you.” O REALLY?

9. “I don’t think she’s that pretty.” We love it when you lie like this. Tell this lie all the time. This lie is good.

10. “I don’t watch porn.” No way! Me neither! Porn is terrible! Vomiting noises.

60 things girls needs to know about guys

1. Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them!

(oh yeah..you're not "popular" if you've slept with  ALOT OF GUYS..you're a HOE)

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3... Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

NEW*5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile when there attracted to them

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-an​d-then-have-her-realize-ho​w-wonderful-and-nice-you-a​re method.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

11. Guys get jealous easily.

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Guys will brag about anything.

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's
too-good-never-been-busted​, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

37. Guys don't really have final decisions.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

50. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

51. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

52. We don't like girls who are too skinny.

53. We love it when girls talk about there ass.

54. Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy ...like wheather it's a one time deal or not ....

55. Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to..it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unoticable tell them about yours...

56. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually.

57. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs..

58. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts...

59. Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that...after you let him know a couple times.

60. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible

Which do you think is wrong and why?

Signs that you are in a wrong relationship,and when to call it quit

A relationship is supposed to be the fun,adventurous and impacting.Relationships are meant to teach you something in life.They should be therefore,built on trust and loyalty.
If your relationship isn't giving you what you want,it's an indication that you shouldn't have been in it in the first place.Below are signs that shows when a relationship should be discontinued;

1.Lack of trust

No relationship,even marriage can move forward without without trust.You have to trust your spouse/partner so much,not sniffing through their phones,checking their social media accounts,their mails and even trailing them to some extent.If you love someone,then trusting him/her shouldn't be an issue.If you are in a relationship were you are not trusted,have a re-think.It might be a bad sign.
Lack of trust can destroy relationships,can make a guy beat up his girlfriend and even a man beat up his wife.

2.Physical violence

There no relationship without violence,but when the violence gets physical,then its time to make an exit.No man,I mean,NO man who loves a woman dearly,could raise his hands on her.
Your man is supposed to love and cherish you,treat you like a queen,pamper you,not the other way round.If a guy becomes violent physically towards you,its a big RED sign.
Don't think he would change afterwards,they only grow worse. Try to come to a conclusion with him on the matter,if repeated........EXIT.

Reasons for failed marriages...Part 1

 Marriage is a union between between a man and a woman  to become husband and wife.....I underlined the words man and woman because marriage is not for boys and girls.For you to engage in marriage,you must have attended/reached to be called a man/woman...That means,you must have some or all of this attributes;

1....You must have a say of your own...So many marriages fail today because one/both of the spouses still run home to their mama/papa for counsel or suggestion before taking a decision in their home.Imagine the instance where a man wants to buy a car for his wife,and instead of asking her which brand she wants,goes to his sister or parents for suggestion.You may buy the car and she may not like it.Marriage is between two grown-ups,you both should talk about everything together.....Take decisions together and not let a third party do that for you.If you want to buy your spouse a surprise gift,ask him/her teasing in an occasion other than your usual serious discussions,that way you would know what they want before hand.

2....You must have your own home..... This may sound funny,but so many marriages which broke-up have been due to this reason.Couples who live permanently in their family houses have no privacy.Marriage should be an exclusive affair between two matured minds,not the other way round.Hear this....
My husband and l were putting up with his parents before we found our own home.Those period we lived there was like hell that l almost left that marriage.The sisters would nag and complain over everything l did.(Florence)

3....You must have a source of income....This doesn't mean that you have to be a millionaire,but you should have a business/work/talent which drives in income to you.This is mostly applicable to men,as a lady may have no work and still get married.The lady,even when she works would only be a support to you,except when the man is incapable of handling things.
To be continued....

Question to never ask your guy----Your mother or l?

BETWEEN I AND YOUR MOTHER WHO DO YOU LOVE THE MOST?

As funny as this sounds,many ladies are fond of asking this question,or have asked it,while some may have the intention of asking the question.
The question is weird as same as absurd.If he tells you he loves you most,will you believe him?If his response is his mother,won't that make you angry and furious?
So why ask a question which either way,you will still be left in doubt.
What matters is how your guy or spouse feels towards you,not trying to come in-between his family.

MOREOVER,any guy who doesn't  love his mum,you shouldn't expect him to love you also.If a guy treats his mother like trash,girlfriend you are the next in action.

How to talk to a long distant girlfriend on phone.

Some guys don't take this particular point into consideration...Ladies are very sensitive,and are enticed by what they hear.When calling your girlfriend on phone,make it as romantic as possible,it matters a lot.

• Call her, and when she answers say, "Hey! How's my girl doing?" Sound really interested. When you say this she will feel good and it will make her feel close to you. Saying this to any girl will make her feel stronger about you. (Talk to her in a low calm and sexy flirty voice the whole time on the phone.) She'll want to talk to you.

Here are some clues>>>

•  After she replies with what she's doing, reply to her with a story on how your day went. Don't make it boring. Just make it sound thoughtful! She should have something to say about it after you're done. See how far that can go and try to keep the conversation going.

• Make sure your conversation doesn't get too dull. And do NOT talk to her like she's your grandmother and you have to. Ask questions, if you can't think of what questions to ask her, here are a few. Ask her what she likes about you, if she asks you what you like about her afterwards, tell her shes beautiful and fun and whatever else you like and tell her how amazing she is. Be like, "So, I have a question..." After a couple seconds or after she says "what?" say, "How did you get so beautiful?" She will laugh, guaranteed. If she doesn't, she's too tight, or not comfortable, let her know you really like her. Try to make her feel more comfortable.

If you decide to end it, say, "Alright, well I gotta go, can I call you later or something?"
If she decides to end it, say, "Well alright bye I'll talk to you later? Text me maybe?" 

She will drop the call feeling happy and loved.

Marriage is not all about love,but also sacrifice.

Many marriages which fail this days,don't crash because the said couples weren't in love before they got married.
The main test of love is not while dating/courting,but after wedding,when you start living together.
The question now is;
Are you  ready to let go of  that your usual routine/schedule for your spouses' sake?
Can you for example,skip that usual dinner with the girls/guys and be with your spouse?
Can you shift/postpone that journey for his/her sake?
For you to have a sweet,enjoyable and happy marriage,you MUST be ready to make sacrifices.

Photo l love today:Bride gets wet after wedding.

Pretty bride gets wet in a swimming pool after the hectic wedding ceremonies.
Don't really know who the couple are,but love the concept.
Cool or not???

Video:How to deal with a bad kisser.

As a guy or girl,Would you continue to date a bad kisser?

How to attract any girl of your wish.

Guys,attracting a girl isn’t as difficult as you think.Most guys are afraid of making first impressions,and like they say ’first impression matters’
Your worries might be,how to walk up to her and start a conversation.The fear of being rejected also rings bell in your head.That shouldn't be a problem.
You can attract any woman you want in these three simple ways;

1. Spark up a great conversation with her.
Here is a fact: Beautiful women are approached by guys everywhere and all the time. So if you want to attract ladies, it is absolutely essential to make yourself stand out from the crowd. And you have only a few seconds to achieve this goal, before she rules you out of the game in her mind. That is why it is important to pick a catchy conversations starter in order to surprise her and capture her attention right from the beginning.

2.Silence is sexy,learn to talk less.
When approaching an attractive girl, many guys make the mistake of talking way too much and going out of their way trying to impress her by how cool or funny they are. This will have the opposite effect in most cases actually. Because the girl will sense your desperation and the need to impress her, and any kind of neediness is considered a turnoff.
So instead, you can catch her by surprise by staying silent sometimes and even looking the other way. She will wonder why you don't seem to find her interesting or attractive enough to be hooked - like the rest of the guys she has met today. So in order to prove to herself that she is indeed attractive, she will be the one trying to fill the void in the conversations - which will feel like she is chasing after you, so to say. And this will turn the table and put the power in your hands for a change.

3. Don't Offer to Buy Her a Drink
This technique may come surprising, but it is actually one of the most basic yet powerful techniques that attractive guys follow. When you offer to buy a drink for a girl you've just met, it sends her the message that you don't feel attractive or worthy for her to spend time talking to you. So you are sort of "bribing" her to give it a chance.

 Give it a try,you will be amazed at the results.

Top tips on dating sugar 'mummies'

Dating older women by young guys are becoming trendy these days.Thou.Many women have confessed to enjoy the comforts of younger men, as they are believed to bug less and ‘perform’ more than the older men.

There are many reasons that have been indicated why mature women are more alluring than the young. It is tough to point why such things attract men as it has never been as obvious as liking a young lady. In fact, there are many resources, facts and more that explains why men would choose to date mature women.

There are several reasons why the suave young man might find dating older woman alluring. Some of the most important ones are listed below:

• Physical appearance

Women that have now evolved as mature older ladies are poised, honing the skills to attract and seduce men, which works perfectly for the young dater. The excitement of flirting with woman older to a man simply offers the subtle feeling many a times. A sugar mummy is the most attractive at these years when she has the ability to allure the young and dashing.

• Increased maturity

The young lady might fall to her trivial  wishes, unlike older woman who exactly know what they want. If a woman who is dating a younger man wants to express something, she will do so and will certainly get it done by her man. Dating in such relationships is clear; the woman will never look to acquire anything fancy or other things like excess cash or even suitable grooming. They will appreciate the quality time that you spend with them. You will be enthralled by their honesty and humility.

• Dating experience

 Women who are dating younger men are careful with the ways to present themselves for a date. You can hardly have the worst experience when dating them as they will tolerate ad flatter you even if you're that bad. Trust them with your time; they are so clear about what they like about you that the moments will slip in frenzy.

• Confidence

Mature women are at the peak of confidence. Their appearance, body language displays how much seductive they are. They are never dependent on finances and as a young man you can lavish on their money.

• Safe sex

The older woman understands the vitality of practicing safe sex and in most cases they are far less likely to get pregnant. Being in their sexual prime, they are infused with the wealth of experience much greater than a young girl can ever provide.

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Signs a woman would make a great wife

Many men have ended up in making their girlfriends wives,and their wives,girlfriends.

 

There's a huge difference between a girlfriend and a wife.Marriage  is a  life-term institution  and can be destructive if it is embarked on with the wrong person. You have to be absolutely sure that the woman in your life is someone you’ll be happy spending time with every day of your life, forever. The signs are;

•  She’s Dependable

            A great wife should be someone you can trust and rely on.  She should be someone who will support  her man no matter what, someone you know you can count on, come rain, come shine.

•  She’s Respectful

Disrespect is one of the major causes of marital dysfunction. The woman you decide to marry should respect you no matter what. She should respect your family and your friends, even if she doesn’t like them. She should be a respectful person all round.

•  She’s Humble

A proud woman will encourage grudges and nothing destroys relationships faster than malice. The ideal wife should be able to apologize even when she isn’t in the wrong.

•  She’s emotionally stable

The woman you decide to marry should be stable emotionally and otherwise. An emotionally unstable woman can’t handle the pressures of marriage. She should be mature and know how to handle situations without constantly losing her cool. You don’t want to marry a woman who will break down in tears over every little challenge.

How to know if a guy is into you

Guys are often not too emotional when it comes to love and relationship,but that doesn't mean that they dont love or care about you.It is often easier to tell when a lady is in love than a guy.
To know if a guy is into you/if a guy loves you,check the following;
•Does he call you often?
If a guy is into you,he will spare time to call you.If he doesn't call you at all,or waits until you call,girlfriend he's not into you.
•He forgets your memorable days:
A guy who loves a woman is so cautious of the fact that ladies are vulnerable to hurts and will do all he can not to hurt you.If a guy forgets your birthday and makes no fuss about it,then he isn't into you.
•He introduces you as a friend or relative:
Ladies often fail to see this red lights.How can a guy who claims to love you,introduce you as a friend,cousin or even sister to his friends or colleagues?
It means that he isn't proud to be with you,feels you are not his class or isn't taking you serious.Sorry girl,a guy who does that isn't into you.
•Has he introduced you to his family yet?
When a guy is in love with a girl,he would wants his family to know about it.
My ex guy introduced me to his mum within 3 months of our relationship.
If he still makes excuses for not letting you meet his family after years of relationship,break off,cos he is not into you.
•If he calls another girl when you are with him or admires ladies openly before you in a provocative manner,it means he isn't serious about you,and doesn't care how you feels.You deserve better.
Move on with your life,someone out there will appreciate you better.
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When to call a relationship quit

Every relationships has its ups and downs.Some people go into relationships with the view that its going to be sweet always.While this is good,it may not always be achievable.The downs in a relationship shouldn't be more than the ups.
Here's my advice before you call a relationship quit.Try to know the reason for your couples behaviour,and try to settle your differences before calling it quit.
You should call a relationship quit when;

• You are disrespected: Being in a relationship where you are treated as trash is the worst thing that can happen to you.Everybody deserves to be loved and respected and being in a relationship where you feel low self esteem should not be allow to linger.Move on with your life,you deserve better.

• You are physically abused:No matter how fierce an argument or quarrel is,hitting your partner shouldn't be contemplated,let alone done.Some guys even take pleasure in hitting ladies just because they love them.Love is not stupid.If your partner has turned into a serial beater,RUN,RUN and RUN.

• You carry the burden of the relationship alone:Being in a relationship with someone doesn't mean you should assume the position of his mother or father.If your partner can't stand on his/her own,always wants you pick their pills,shoulder their problems without wanting to share in yours.....Its time to quit.

• You feel less affection for that person:When there's no more affection towards your partner,the relationship becomes burdensome.If you feel your love for partner has grown cold,then maybe you where infatuating.

• You are being suspicious: A relationship should be built on trust and faith.Constant checking of phones,Facebook account,who your partner talks with or who he/she talks with,are all over suspicious acts.You should move get out and move on with your life.

Give your relationship another chance,try to settle your misunderstandings.If it works out fine,if not,move on with your life.

HOW TO MAKE A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP WORK

Long-distance relationships can be extremely hard. Not only is it difficult because you can not see or talk to your partner as frequently as usual, but practically everyone you meet will have a horror story about how a long-distance relationship failed for them. I once read that absence diminishes small love and increases great ones. Keep this in mind when you are going through rough times. If you have not yet committed to a long-distance relationship and are contemplating it, know that it is a huge commitment. Make sure that you really love the other person and that it is worth it for you to make certain sacrifices. Below are some guidelines to make it work.

  

 1. Be honest about what you expect from each other. Do you want the freedom to date other people? Are you comfortable with your partner making friends with the opposite sex? Are you going to try the long-distance thing out and stick with it if it seems to work, but not try to force the relationship? Discuss these things with your partner and be honest about your expectations. This way, everything is out in the open and it will lessen the suspicions you have about the other person. Also, you never have to question if you are crossing a boundary. 


 2. Coordinate your schedules. Be realistic about the time commitment you can give each other. If it works for both of your schedules, plan on talking at a particular time at night. However, this can place stress on you if you end up wanting to go out with friends and your long-distance partner is not understanding about your need to be social and branch out, or gets jealous of the time you spend with other people. No matter what, try to keep in touch daily through phone calls, E-mail, AIM, or other means. Download Skype, net2phone, or phone-free. Its free to talk online if you both download programs like these ... no matter where you are. Also, consider a web cam for a more personal connection.

 3. Make plans in advance to see each other in person. If you set firm dates to see each other and stick to them, it makes the wait less difficult because you can spend time planning outings with your partner and looking forward to seeing them. When you mutually agree on certain times to see each other, it lessens problems that can arise from one person feeling like they are pressuring the other into seeing them and the other feeling like the are too busy and are pushing away from the relationship because of the pressure.

6 Signs you are in love.

 

Falling in love is a wonderful experience,but can leave a first timer worrying and confused.For someone who is in love for the first time,you may find yourself wondering if your alright or possessed by something.Either-way,you are thrown off your feet by love if you show three or more of these signs;

• You think about them often:If you are in love,you would probably think about the person all the time,but when these thoughts keep you from engaging in your normal routines,then its infatuation.

• You want to impress them:You would want them to know how bright or good you are at something.Displaying your achievements before them is what yo would want to do.Bringing them before friends that will mock or poke you will be distanced.

• You care more about your appearance:You suddenly want to look good or better.Ironing your clothes and choosing matchable colors for your dress and shoes,adding extra details to everything.

• You care more of their happiness than for yourself:Not letting anything wrong happen to them,making sure you contribute to their lives,are all signs of love.

•    You want to know more about them:If there's a tape or book that can tell you about them,you won't sleep until you read to the last sentence.You want to hear about them from friends,families or colleagues.

• You want to be with them more:Hanging out with friends isn't appealing anymore. You always want the hangout to be with him or her.But be careful,so as not to get too close for his/her liking.

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Men: What to wear on a first date

First dates are really of concern,because most relationships have their backbones on first impressions.So to make your first date both memorable and classy,guys,you need to wear the following;


Wear nice outfits: You don't have to own all the designer clothing's in the world to look good.Wear your simple shirt with a plain or jean trouser.

If its an official date,you may consider wearing a suit,or shirt with a long tie. 

DON'T wear a bow tie to a first date.Look simple but cute.

  
 



Wear a smile: Smiles are make ups you can do without.No matter how beautiful or handsome you are,without a smile on your face,you will be looking like you just got fired or sick.Smile as much as you can and laugh also.The also reduces the  anxiety/tension...

Wear a nice perfume: You wouldn't want to go to your date smelling as though you just came back from the mechanic.Wear a mild but irresistible masculine scent.This will not only send a positive signal,but will make you feel confident.If you cannot afford a bottle of perfume,bathe with a nice scented soap. 

Express are good perfumes.   

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How to make a girl fall for you

Ladies fall for guys for different reasons.What attracts a girl to this guy won't be the same for another girl.These facts would if not make her fall for you,would at least make her notice you. 

• Look good: I will keep saying this.Ladies love to see a guy looking good.You don't need to dress in a super stars' apparel to look good.Present yourself well,from haircut,to clothes,to perfume....Smelling good is also a plus.

• Listen to her: Listening is a good communication skills.Giving a girl a listening ear makes her feel accepted and cherished.Give her your opinions when she asks for them.

• Make her friends your friends:The saying that no girl wants a guy who other girls don't want isn't to be argued here.Have a good rapport with her friends.If she sees other girls liking you,especially her friends,then she will like you.

• Be confident: Every girl likes a guy who is confident about his self.Don't appear dependent or loose.Even if you are still staying with your parents or schooling,tell her about your ambitions and future plans.  

• Compliment her: Tell her things that makes her smile.Compliment her and touch her in a polite way,her arms or even her hair...Always tell her how good she looks

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How to impress a girl on your first date

Being on a first date can make the both of you very nervous and uneasy.The girl would be very careful on her choice of clothes,not knowing what the guy likes.The guy on the other hand would want a perfect place for the date,away from distractions and things that might disrupt the date... 

Guys,you may also be wondering what to say and the discussions to engage in...Here are some tips;

• Ask her her hobbies and things she like and then tell her yours  in return

• Talk about work,studies,travels,work tasks,e.t.c

• Ask her the type of music she enjoys and tell her yours too

• Discuss favorite movies or celebrities

You will find out that the date will be lively and tension will seem reduced...To make her impressed,you should;

1. Compliment her: I will always say this,ladies love compliments,even the ugliest girl on earth wants to be told she looks good.Compliment on her hair,you can say,lovely hairstyle or hair color,it fits you well.You can also compliment on her shoes,tell her it looks good,but don't ask her where she got them from or how much it costs,because she may feel shy or embarrassed,either because its too expensive or cheap.

    2.  Crack jokes: Say funny things that will make her laugh,don't make the date appear like a joke or else 
        she sees' you as the less serious type.Say few jokes,as these will also make her relaxed.

     3.  Be natural: Don't try to be the person you are not.You can be nervous,but don't allow it alter things.Don't appear very eager to please her.

    4.  Don't do all the talking,engage her in a conversation...Ask her questions and listen as she answers you.Give her your whole attention,don't look distracted or lost in thoughts.Ladies love attention.