Saturday, 12 October 2013

Cheating in relationships/marriages

Cheating doesn't occur only when one kisses, meets or have sexual relation with a third party. Once you find yourself deleting text messages and e-mails so your partner won't see them, you are already there. Once you find it uncomfortable to chat, send text messages, receive calls or make calls to some people because your partner is around; once you find it very difficult to allow your partner to make us of your phone, answer your calls in your presence or absence then know that you are already a cheat.
Its like a cancer it develops slowly but you will surely feel the pain when its fully grown.

 The funny thing is most of the times, people try to find what they already have because they don't just appreciate what they have. Remember the grass may look green on the other side but what if you could just invest time and energy by watering the one that you have. Wouldn't the world be a better place to be today?
Can you imagine how strong your relationship would be if you would not waste your energy, resources and time on things that have no future. Secret, small, hidden relationships are like ticks they suck all the good things out of your marriage or relationship and makes it unstable. It will take you more effort to repair what you would have damaged and the sad thing is sometimes those wounds might never heal.

Stop sexing and flirting with those people- Yes you know them. Imagine your partner (Husband/wife) reading the messages that you receive, would he/she reply with a free heart on your behalf? If the answer is NO, then that is an unhealthy chat/ talk that you are having Stop it before it's too late. Some mistakes will cost you for a life time yet you could have just avoided them by just ignoring that chick/ dude who now loves you because you have been turned into a better 'asset' by your current partner. Where were they when you were down?

Please may you all get rid of all the parasitic relationships that will always be a treat to your relationships' health. Fight for what is right and never give up on the one you Love. Yes l said health because you have to know and take care of it just like your body. Love it as you love your body, maintain it as you maintain your skin, teeth, hair and nails. True love means hard-work. Do not apply if you are not prepared to take the risks. Stay out of a relationship if you still want to fool around (but that has its own price) because a relationship calls for great deal of commitment.

Most of the young people think that they will start being faithful when they get married- Word of Advise (You can never teach an old dog new tricks) That is why there are so many broken families because people think they still have time to adjust. Start practicing being true to yourself when no one is watching u because that's who you really are. Besides its by nature that what goes around comes around- Do you think the person that you got out of a secret affair will stop just because you are now with her/him?

Share if you agree and save someone's marriage /­ relationship today....bottom line......



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