Back and better

Hi readers, I have been away for like ages... This is due to parenting(preg and d lots)... God blessed me with a beautiful baby 👧..... So sweet and loving after three boys. It hasn't been easy on me.
  Dear readers, let's all roll together and I promise to be better. Love u all, 😘 😘 xoxo

Four siblings with same birthday???

This is a very rare case....In fact the first of its kind that l have come across.
       These are actually my cousins,today is their birthday, the four of them; Born of same parents..
Have u seen such? Where all the children in a home share same birthday?
   Pls drop ur comments and birthday wishes..

Goodluck or Buhari??? Cast your votes

Hello fabz,
     I ain't a politician or supporting any of the political party.....Buh let me just know wat my readers think.
So who are you gonna vote for come the presidential election day and if you can tell us why?
As for me,I think Goodluck has ruled under my watch and l ain't OK with him,Buhari did when l wasn't even sure my mum was married(Lol)......
So l wanna see him do his own part....My opinion o

Yello GRT fans!!! Blogging reloaded

Hey fans,its been a while since l stopped blogging....So many things have been going on;motherhood,school and other responsibilities l had to handle....
The good news is that am back and better,so watcha for me...

Question of the day:Can you use fetish means to get a person to marry you?

Many a times,people wonder why so many persevere in relationships and marriages even when it is obviously going nowhere. Ever wondered why so many still linger in such dooms?

A person suggested that there might be something absurd behind it. Do you think someone might use a fetish means to lure a spouse???

Please share your thoughts below

What is Valentine all about?

Valentine is around the corner,many are preparing,but not all knows the meaning of what they are celebrating. 
Why do we celebrate Valentine?

Who should love most in relationship/marriage?

Dear Grace,
  Hope you had a great day.Please I am in doubt about something.I got married last year and before then,my husband was so loving that I thought all was complete not until recently,I don't know who loves who most.

I feel cheated and unloved.Please,who is supposed to love most in marriage,me or him?

I was taught that a woman should only submit to her husband,while the man should love his wife.
Help me out please.

Is it right to marry a 16 year old?

Good morning fellas,its been a very long time sime l wrote on this blog,this is due to the fact that I have been so busy with family issues.
A reader of mine sent me this question and he wants advice

''Dear Grace,is it right for me to date/marry a girl of 16?
I have been eyeing tis girl in my neighbourhood,she is s reserved and homely and I think of approaching her. I am 30 and would love to hear your honest advices.

Please,what do you think he should do?

Relationship don't for the day:Don't put up with a guy,until you are married to him.

''Ladies,do not put up with a guy who is not yet married to you''
This is a common mistake ladies make nowadays.Immediately a guy says I LOVE YOU,they conclude that he is going to marry them and the next thing is to park to his house.Some of them even go uninvited.
A man who truly loves you would never ask you to move in with him,even when he does,you should decline.
Men take advantage of that,some of them would keep you there and go look for a more decent girl outside who they would marry formally.
Hear this true life story;
Aisha disobeyed her parents and moved in with a man who promised to give her heaven and earth,this guy was to her,the best that had happened to her.They have lived for 12 good years and yet,no marriage proposal,let alone a wedding.Recently,she heard from a genuine source that her man was going to get married in his home town and had even secured a new job there.He plans on leaving her in the apartment given to him by his work-place.
12 solid years,wasted.
Men can be shrewd.Most men would say,why pay for something that I have had free of charge?
Ladies,let a man want you,make him look for you,make him know your worth,make him know you can still do without him.
Don't fall cheaply,you are a queen.

Jilted few months to his wedding,what should he do?

Met this guy who was ranting and shouting in a saloon where l went to wash my hair. At first,l taught he was crazy,not until my friend,the owner of the saloon gave me the gist.
This guy have been parading a girl around town,telling everyone they are both getting married soonest,and frankly,they will,hopefully December.

The guy claimed he pays the girl's bills,put her on a #40,000 allowance monthly and even gave her #300,000 recently for her wedding shopping.
Now to the reason why he was going mad,the girl called him few days ago that she was going to a cousins house which the guy declined of,but she left anyway. The guy later found out that the girl went to a guys house and even slept over there.

The guy is really going out of his mind,as he even hit a small girl due to over-speeding,he needs advice and he needs it fast.What do you think he should do?

Question:Why don't girls show contentment?

Hey readers,hope y'all woke up safe and sound. Happy ED-AL KABIR to all my Islamic readers.

A reader of GTB asked me a question I taught to share with you guys.

Dear Grace,
   Why is it that girl's don't get contented these days with what we(boys) gives them?They are too demanding and unappreciative.

Like seriously?

Do you  have any reply or comment? Please use the comment box,thanks.

Relationship DON'T for the day: Do not tell a lie

Hey readers,I will try to share with you on things you should do and shouldn't do in your relationships from today.
The relationship DON'T for the day is;

DO NOT LIE TO YOUR PARTNER

Relationships built on lies can never stand.Why tell someone who you intend to spend the rest of your life with lies?Why tell him/her that you are from a royal/wealthy family,when your parents just got kicked out from a room apartment they couldn't afford to pay,or that you are working in an oil company or bank when actually,you are an applicant or even a taxi driver?

How would you feel if you are the person told this lie?
The relationship if may continue,would take time to adjust to been worth trusting and every word you utter henceforth,monitored.

Be true to your spouse/partner. Lying doesn't pay,instead it makes you look untrustworthy and undeserving.

 Don't  tell a lie,no matter how it may look.

Indecent dressing and its encroachment in our society today

Indecent dressing can be described as an act of deliberate exposure of one's body to the public. This practice is contrary to acceptable norms and values of any society.

                

Moral decadence on the hand is a reduction in the level of morality in the society. Do you observe that most (Ladies) had gone haywire all in the name of dressing? The other day I screamed when I saw a girl whose parents barely feed well, dressed with half of her breast and buttocks outside. The trouser she wore is such that half of her buttocks was outside, with beads and terrible make-ups and I heard her mother telling her “to have a nice day”.

Some girls have been abused and even embarrassed publicly because of their outrageous outfit.

Indecent dressing is the major cause of the various assault and sexual harassment recorded in the society, overtime. As a result of civilization, Nigeria ladies dress half naked to occasions all in the name of fashion and this is contrary to the prestige placed on African women. For instance, Nigeria ladies derive pleasure in wearing cloth such as, Mini Skirt, bumper short, arm less etc.

Is dating more than one girl wrong?

Hey readers,top of the weekend to y'all. Hope you are having a nice Sunday.
Remember,you can send your dating/relationship questions to me tru my bb pin:2AECCA71 or email ijeworldrocks@gmail.com.
A reader sent a question to me via my bb and I taught to share it here anonymously.Read it below and drop your comments.Thanks

Dear Grace,
I am dating three girls,find it difficult with choosing the right one. I started seeing more than one girl because as you know,ladies cannot be trusted these days,so don't wanna put my eggs in one basket.
Is dating three girls wrong? How do I even settle with one and discard the others? Need answers asap.

How to build trust in your relationships

Trust is the cornerstone of any working, healthy relationship. Without trust, you don’t have a solid foundation and your relationship could end up crumbling. As you get to know someone and fall in love, trust has to be built. Here are some simple ways to do that.

1. SHARE YOUR FEELINGS

If you want your partner to be honest with you, you need to be honest with him –- that's the only way you're going to build trust in your relationship. This means being truthful about how you feel, rather than keeping your cards too close to your chest. Sharing intimate details about your life and who you are can bring you and your partner closer, setting the foundation for trust and intimacy. The more you share, the more your partner will share and the more you know about each other, and how you both feel, the closer you'll become.

2.BE OPEN TO TRUST

Trusting someone can be hard, especially if you've been deceived in the past. But it's up to you to open yourself up to trusting someone else in spite of past heartache. This can be a difficult process so just go one day at a time and realize that even though one guy hurt you it doesn't mean every male has a negative streak that's just waiting to rear its ugly head. Being open to trust means being a little bit vulnerable, which can feel strange if you've been closed off to love since your last breakup. Remember: The more you allow yourself to trust the person you love, the stronger your relationship will be.

3.TRUST YOURSELF

Part of building trust in your relationship is being able to trust yourself and your instincts. If you've found someone you love and you want to make the relationship work, trust the fact that the person you're with is right for you and that if something were to go awry you would know (or feel) it. Rather than feeling unsure of yourself or scared to let go and enjoy your new romance, trust that you know what you're doing and can handle whatever happens.

DO you trust your partner? Does he/she trust you?Share your opinions now